Testimonials

“When I began Stacey’s program I was beginning to realize I was lost in “affair fog” (the first time I heard that phrase I thought it was a load of crap and didn’t think I was lost anywhere) but the wool was beginning to be peeled from my eyes and I had begun questioning why I had done what I had. She helped me peel back a layer at a time of why I had chose the road I had. She helped open my eyes to things I had avoided and chose to ignore. Learning what I needed to become healthy and safe. Not just for my husband, in hopes of full reconciliation, but for myself. To stop the lies and address my behaviors that led me into the mess I had found myself. I have learned how to better communicate and not hide and ignore my needs until I revert to inappropriate ways of getting my needs met. Ways to speak up for myself and not deny myself in a healthy relationship. There is no excuse for what I have done. Now with Stacey’s helping guidance I have tools to help me keep safe and healthy. I truly am sorry for having needed to have someone of Stacey’s qualifications but glad to have met and learned from her. She goes at your pace with gentle expectations being a sincere wealth of knowledge that helps guide you on your healing path. Thank you Stacey for helping those in need realize what it is that we need when we can’t see it.”

Katie B.
Northern Michigan

Alexa Young, CA

Thank you Stacey for teaching me why I had an affair. The work is hard but its worth it. I feel like I am finally free from loving my affair partner and I feel like I move forward with my husband. ----Lori

You changed my life! God bless you and your family. This work is hard. You are truley the hands and feet of Jesus.---Toni

“I cannot imagine going through the grief and pain that comes with affair recovery without Stacey. She has been more helpful than my therapist and trusted friends. I so appreciate her honesty, truth and acceptance. I absolutely recommend her services to anyone who is currently in an affair or healing from one.” Dawn

Thank you, Stacey!!

Hi Stacey! I just wanted to reach out to you to tell you thank you! After ending my affair a year ago it has taken me this long to finally cut contact with him, heal myself and let this go. This situation does not define me any longer like it has for so long. My affair ending, letting him go and repairing my life and myself has been the hardest thing I have ever went through. Your coaching has been so helpful to me. They were the one thing that helped me not feel like I was crazy in all my thoughts and emotions. I thank God for the work you are doing. Thanks for sharing your story and helping others.

God Bless,

Sara

“I am so grateful I found Stacey! Her book and social media content helped me so much when I was struggling, lost, alone and totally upside down. Getting coached by Stacey helped me right the ship and gave me skills to avoid a pity party trap and falling into old habits. I’m so grateful for her vulnerability and being willing to share all she learned about attachment styles and coping skills by walking through her own experience. It helped me understand myself better, my own history and where my weaknesses are. Thank you for pointing me to Christ for help and comfort Stacey! So thankful we aren’t alone. - Jane “

Without your help last year I’m not sure this photo would have been possible

My husband and I renewed our vows at end of June to commence a new beginning

Putting our old behind us and moving forward

We have been together 21 years and because of the work I was able to do with you along with my faith following and therapy I have been unable to break some strongholds and make life changes. Feelings aren’t always truth and only God can give you that! Even being a therapist myself didn’t help me in making personal changes and when I finally gave it all over to God did something shift. I am blessed with a grace filled forgiving husband and I am still working on the worth of that in myself. Thank you for being a resource that I scrolled past on IG

I pray your mission and work with others provides healing

Michelle

Working with Stacey helped me to discover the core wounds from childhood that led to destructive behavior in my marriage such as seeking an affair partner. By uncovering and addressing these wounds with Stacey I've stopped this behavior, leading to a more honest and committed relationship with my husband. I no longer have the shame but instead more self confidence and love for my spouse. Thank you Stacey!

Stacey was such a blessing and beacon of hope to me during one of the darkest and most confusing, trying times in my life. Her podcast (and her being so open sharing of her own story, in addition to her expertise) gave me a glimmer of hope for life and redemption on the other side of infidelity.

Working with her 1:1, Stacey helped me gain perspective, and always listened without judgment. She was an invaluable resource that helped remind me of God’s love for me, even in the depths of my sin and pain. She helped me understand the source of my deep, emotional motivation to even engage in an affair to begin with. I'm on the path of healing for myself and my marriage through our work together.

On a tactical note, she always worked with my schedule and was super responsive via email and texts which I appreciated so much.

I highly recommend working with her for any woman feeling lost, confused, trapped, and/or hurt by their infidelity.-----Sarah

Thank you Stacey for helping me to feel better. I was stuck in the past. The feelings of shame, guilt and unworthiness kept me from living fully in the present. Your kind, nonjudgemental presence helped me to heal. I am very grateful.

Cindy

Stacey was a life saver. After my affair was revealed, my world imploded. I was experiencing intense withdrawals from my affair partner, and I had no one to talk to about it. I also had no idea how to deal with it. I set up weekly meetings with Stacey and it was incredibly comforting to talk to someone who understood what I was going through. NO ONE truly understands unless they have experienced it themselves. Stacey was also very helpful because she gave me tools to work through the withdrawals and detach from my AP. I highly recommend reaching out to her if you are struggling! You want to get through that withdrawal phase as quickly as possible, and Stacey can help you do that. ----Mellisa

I love our coaching sessions. They give a lot of insight. You are more practical than Esther Perel. I also admire your courage and truthfulness.----Diane

I am very thankful to Stacey and her coaching during a very stressful time in my life. The Attachment program has been transformative. Through this program, I was able to better identify my attachment styles and recognize needs and harmful patterns in my life to better navigate my own journey to healing. Stacey guided me in processing these patterns and replacing them with more secure ways of relating to my husband and others. The tools and insights gained have not only improved my personal relationships but also increased my overall emotional wellbeing. I feel more confident in my ability to build trust and intimacy in all areas of my life now.

Grateful & Hopeful, Victoria

Stacey has an incredible ability to listen, understand and develop helpful insights with your best interests in mind. When I found Stacey, I was navigating a challenging period in my life. I wanted a faith-based coach to help me through this. With God's help and Stacey's coaching, I have been able to regain control of my life, in just a few months. I have benefited tremendously from working with her. I am so grateful to have found her and am looking forward to more growth and change with her guidance. ----Tracy

Today was the first time I felt seen. I’m stunned and grateful for your bravery to give voice to this personal hell. I found you today because I sought you in my search for peace.

It’s been 2 weeks and I’m struggling to process some very dark feelings and move forward.

It’s been 2 weeks and I’m struggling to process some very dark feelings and move forward. ---Nicole

Alexa Young, CA

When my affair was discovered by my husband, I immediately went into no contact with my affair partner. I was desperately trying to stay in my marriage and process an immense amount of grief and shame. I came across Stacey's videos and found myself going back to watch more whenever I could find time. Every feeling she described was exactly what I was going through. It's hard to find support for female betrayers, and it was such a relief to listen to someone who understood.

10 weeks into our marriage recovery, my affair partner reached out to me and we began talking again. I was so scared that I wouldn't be strong enough to end it and move on with my life. I sent a message to Stacey asking for help and she immediately set up a call with me. She was so calm and understanding, and I felt like she could see me without judgement.

My relapse was discovered just days later by my husband and I again went into no contact with my AP, but this time, I knew I needed help and was so glad to have Stacey in my corner. We set up twice weekly calls at first, and I was able to really just unload a lot of emotional weight, pain, grief and shame. Stacey helped me set up a plan of action if my AP were to reach out again, and she helped me come to my OWN conclusions about whether or not the affair was worth continuing. She never made me feel like it was what I had to do, but she definitely guided me to find the right answers (not the chemically infused fantasies I was clinging to). This time, it was my choice to let him go. In that process she helped me look at my relationship with God, which I really needed! I honestly don't think I'd still be married right now without her help. I was on a destructive path and my brain was so addicted to dopamine that her level head, along with God's incredible grace are the only things that saved me from myself! If you are struggling in an affair and feel totally alone and afraid, reach out to her, I promise you won't regret it. The only downside is that you will miss her when you are healed and ready to move on!-----Carol